Making family New Year’s resolutions that actually stick

New Year’s resolutions are not only a great way to set goals for yourselves, but they can also be a way to bring your family closer. For younger kids especially, it’s a great way to learn about how to set goals and how to follow through with them, as well. 

While teenagers may be able to set their own resolutions and goals with less parental guidance, Michelle Ivey, Program Supervisor of the Macomb County Community Health Children’s Department, recommends for children under the age of 14, consider opting for a family resolution.

Where to start in creating family resolutions

Ivey and Elizabeth Vutci, Director of Community and Behavioral Health Services at Macomb County Community Mental Health, suggest that you start with a family meeting.

“Set aside undistracted time for your family to sit down together, where all family members determine what they want to do,” Vutci says. “That means no TV and no phones — none of those distractions — and throwing out ideas of what everyone would like to have happen over the course of the next week, month or year.”

Parents and caregivers should help guide the decision-making along the way, in terms of what’s feasible and what’s not. But Ivey notes that it’s important to make kids feel they’re contributing or that their input is valued, even if it’s something really small.

One of the biggest mistakes Vutci sees with resolutions of any kind? Planning or expecting that a resolution will be done every single day. 

“Nobody does anything 100% of the time, all the time,” she adds. “It’s better to break it down into something you can do twice a week and then build on that.”

Three resolutions for your family to consider

Though every family will have their own goals, these are some of the most common ones Vutci and Ivey hear from families and how to best approach them.

• Getting healthier: Consider family gym memberships where parents can bring the children along to get active or where childcare is available while parents work out to get them in the habit of going to the gym. If the goal is to eat better, include children in parts of the process like food shopping, picking out recipes or even cooking together, depending upon age.

• Getting organized: Some parents may use resolutions to help teach their kids about cleaning and organizing their bedrooms or backpacks, or even make an effort as a family to make the overall organization of the home a priority.

• Communicating better: Opening lines of communication within the family unit is never a bad idea, whether that includes therapeutic intervention or getting the kids involved in more family decisions.

Tips for sticking with resolutions for kids (and adults!)

• Create a visual tracker: The saying “out of side, out of mind” rings true sometimes, so consider creating a visual way to track progress or tasks that can be placed on the refrigerator or some place prevalent where all members of the family will see it.
• Give yourselves grace: Between school pickup, appointments, practice, recitals and work, days can get busy for families. If a few days are missed, keep going and don’t be too hard on yourselves. These are formative years for kids, so show them how to be persistent and not give up — and show yourselves as parents, too.
• Keep it fun: Resolutions aren’t meant to be punishments, and the more fun and lighthearted, the more engagement you’ll get from the whole family.

Most importantly, families should work together through these goals, because there are important lessons on the other side.

“Everyone needs to support each other because sometimes it’s even hard for adults to follow through,” Ivey adds. “Whether they’re children, teenagers or high school seniors, it’s important to show that when you set goals for yourself, if you stay on track, work hard and encourage yourself, you can complete that goal.

“You can accomplish the things you want to accomplish, and that’s a skill that can continue through their whole lives.”

Vutci adds, “These things build confidence — and with confidence comes ability and willingness to try new things.”

For more information on living and learning in Macomb County, visit Make Macomb Your Home. Find more articles like this at Metro Parent’s A Family Guide to Macomb County.

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Curious Detroit Kids: Are there safe rideshare options for teens in Detroit?

Between school drop-offs and pick-ups, and all the extracurricular activities, it can sometimes feel like you are your teen’s own (unpaid) personal chauffeur. Public transit can often be unreliable, with a limited run schedule, and sometimes even a little scary for kids on their own.

If you’re able to foot the slightly higher expense, booking a ride for your teen through a rideshare app is a super convenient option to get them where they want to go. And, it takes some of the work off your own shoulders. We found a few safe, reliable options to check out in the metro Detroit area. 

Welcome to Curious Detroit Kids, your guide to what parents need to know about raising kids in the Motor City. From schools and neighborhoods to local events and fun facts, we break down the stories, policies and places shaping family life across metro Detroit. Curious about something? Send your questions, comments or thoughts on what we should cover next to david@metroparent.com.

Rideshare for school activities:

HopSkipDrive

HopSkipDrive is a supplemental school transportation service. If you need to get your teen to/from school, to sports practice, music lessons, a work internship or a close friend’s home, they’ve got you covered. Their CareDrivers undergo rigorous driving tests and background checks, and are often former teachers or babysitters. The app also offers real-time tracking and Safe Ride Support to give you peace of mind. Note: HopSkipDrive is not an on-demand service. All rides must be booked at least six hours in advance. 

Safety features: 

• All CareDrivers must pass a 15-point certification process, and must have past experience as a caregiver
• A multi-factor verification process that ensures your teen is getting into the right vehicle
• Real-time tracking and travel time estimates, with ride status notifications  
• Dedicated support line for any immediate assistance during a ride

Rideshare for exploring the city 

Important note: Lyft is a popular ride-share service, but they do not allow minors to ride unaccompanied. 

Uber for teens

Teen accounts on Uber allow for teenagers to request their own rides through the app. Uber assures parents that teens will always be matched with highly rated drivers, and parents can follow along every step of the way with live trip tracking and real-time status updates. Safety features like PIN verification and RideCheck are also always turned on. Teen accounts are linked to your family profile and on-file card. 

Safety features:

• Teens are always matched with highly rated drivers
• Follow along every step of the way with real-time tracking and status updates
• All teen trips are destination locked
• PIN verification and RideCheck are always turned on 
• Able to call 911, contact uber support, and report an issue through the app

Tips for parents with teens using rideshare: 

Always verify driver and car details

The Uber app will always tell you the name of their driver, the type of car they’re looking out for and the license plate number. HopSkipDrive will do the same. Make sure you verify all information before your teen hops in the car. Doing a quick Google search of the car model can be helpful. Teach your teen to do this as well.

Make sure you’re aware of in-app safety features 

Each app has slightly different resources for both you and your teen to use before, during and after a ride. Make sure you know what they are. Uber has a great guide you can go through to familiarize yourself with their teen account features.

Keep your phone on hand

You’ll be sent real-time updates about how your teen’s ride is going. When they arrive, consider checking in to verify everything went smoothly. 

No sharing personal information

Teach your teen to avoid giving out their school name, address, daily routines, or any other personal information to drivers.

Have a backup plan

Make sure teens know who to call if a ride gets canceled or delayed — especially at night or in unfamiliar areas.

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Win a Family Four-Pack to the 2026 Detroit Auto Show

The Detroit Auto Show returns in 2026 with hands-on exhibits, ride-alongs and exciting automotive experiences for all ages. Families can explore cutting-edge vehicles, racing-inspired attractions and future mobility all under one roof in the heart of downtown Detroit.

Auto Show week will also coincide with Ford’s public debut of its upcoming Formula 1 partnership, announced from Michigan Central Station in Detroit.

Metro Parent has teamed up with Southeast Michigan Ford Dealers to give families the chance to attend the Detroit Auto Show with a free family four-pack of tickets. Winners can explore the show floor, see iconic and next-generation vehicles up close and enjoy one of the Motor City’s most anticipated annual events together.

This sweepstakes begins on Friday, Dec. 19, 2025, and ends on Thursday, Jan. 8, 2026. Ten winners will each receive one family four-pack of tickets. Winners will be notified via the email provided at entry, and tickets will be mailed directly to your home address (which must be given to be considered to win).

Prize package includes:

• One family four-pack of Detroit Auto Show tickets (four adult tickets, ages 13+)
• Ticket value: $7.50 per ticket
• Valid for entry Jan. 17-25, 2026
• Tickets may be used on any public show day during the valid dates

Enter the form below for a chance to win

Thank you message: Thank you for entering the Detroit Auto Show family four-pack sweepstakes, brought to you by Southeast Michigan Ford Dealers. If you’re selected as a winner, we’ll contact you by email after the entry period closes and mail out your tickets on Friday, Jan. 9. 

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Additional rules for the Detroit Auto Show family four-pack prize:

• Validity and availability: Tickets are valid Jan. 17-25, 2026, during public show hours of the Detroit Auto Show at Huntington Place in Detroit. Tickets have no cash value and cannot be replaced if lost or stolen. Prize redemption is subject to the Detroit Auto Show’s public schedule and availability.
• Voucher terms: This prize does not include a voucher or reference code. Tickets will be mailed directly to the winner’s home address following winner notification. Mailing address must be provided to be eligible to receive the prize.
• Non-transferability: This prize is awarded specifically to the selected winner and may not be sold, transferred or exchanged for cash or any other value.
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Grown kids from metro Detroit share what their parents got right

You don’t need a degree in child psychology to raise a kid who trusts you. But you do need to create the kind of relationship where they feel safe being themselves and safe telling you when they mess up.

We spoke to two young adults who grew up in metro Detroit — Starr, 28, now building a career in film in California, and Chad, 31, who owns a growing security business based here in Michigan. Both say they’ve always had strong bonds with their parents.

They described childhood homes where they felt secure, understood and valued. While their families’ structures looked different but the emotional blueprints they describe are strikingly similar.

Here’s what we learned from their stories and what it might mean for parents today.

More than “the cool parent” — be the safe one

It’s tempting to think closeness comes from being the laid-back, anything-goes parent. But what stuck with Starr and Chad wasn’t looseness, it was safety.

Starr described a home where she always knew she could go to her mom with anything. Not because she feared punishment, but because she trusted she’d be heard without judgment. 

That trust, built early, helped her avoid rebellion entirely. She simply didn’t want to jeopardize the connection they had.

Chad said something similar. His home was calm, welcoming and consistent. His parents didn’t overreact to mistakes. Yes, there were consequences, but also conversations, support and follow-through. In both homes, discipline was less about control and more about care.

Say it clearly, say it often: “You can tell me anything”

It’s not enough to hope your child knows they can come to you. Starr’s mom made that invitation explicit from the beginning: If you’re ever in trouble, call me, no questions asked.

By putting that out there clearly and repeatedly, her mom laid the groundwork for openness. She also modeled trust because she believed in Starr’s ability to make good decisions.

The message for other parents? Don’t wait for your child to come to you in crisis. Start early and keep repeating that they can. Not just when things are going great, but especially when they’re not.

A united front, even in two households

Whether parents live together or apart, what matters most is that kids see them working together with consistency.

Chad recalled how his mom and dad had different styles — his mom was more vocal, his dad more behind the scenes — but they always aligned. That unity gave him a sense of security and fairness that stuck with him.

Starr’s parents divorced when she was young, but her mom made sure it never felt like a tug-of-war. Her parents shared custody evenly, lived close by in Berkley and maintained a respectful relationship. “I was very much still raised by both parents,” she said.

That cohesion, regardless of marital status, gave both Starr and Chad a strong emotional foundation.

Let kids be kids, you handle the stress

Chad didn’t realize until adulthood just how much his parents buffered him from life’s harder edges. They made sacrifices quietly, kept the atmosphere steady and gave him the space to focus on being a kid. “You want your child to feel like everything is great, happy, safe and healthy,” he said.

Starr’s mom created a similar buffer, supporting big decisions without overburdening her kids with adult concerns. When Starr pursued a creative career, her mom was all in, cheering her on and making sure she knew she was backed no matter what.

Parents don’t need to protect kids from truth, but from excess worry. That space builds resilience, confidence and calm.

See the whole child, not just their behavior

Starr and Chad both described growing up in homes where they were treated like whole people — respected, listened to and supported, even when they made mistakes or had strong opinions.

Starr recalled moments of passionate disagreement, but her mom always stayed grounded, listened carefully and made her feel heard. Chad reflected on times when he resisted schoolwork or rules, but now sees it was all rooted in care and consistency.

That kind of acceptance — the sense that you can be your full self, even when it’s messy — is what keeps the door open for honest conversations and lifelong trust.

Starr and Chad didn’t grow up in identical homes, but they both describe the same emotional blueprint: safety, consistency and trust. And now, as adults, those early relationships continue to shape how they move through the world with confidence, stability and strong mental health.

Chad is raising a young son and expecting another child early next year. He’s already drawing from the example his parents set, prioritizing open communication, steady discipline and the kind of relationship where honesty is welcomed, even when it’s hard. It’s the kind of parenting that makes emotional safety the norm, not the exception.

For Starr, that deep bond with her mom became a model for all her relationships. It helped her set high standards for trust and connection — with friends, her partner and herself. That kind of secure attachment has become a quiet strength in her adult life.

The takeaway for parents? The connection you build now — with calm presence, clear values and unconditional support — can become the foundation your child carries for life. It’s one of the most powerful things you can do to support their mental and emotional well-being.

This content is sponsored by the Ethel and James Flinn Foundation. Visit flinnfoundation.org.

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Curious Detroit Kids: Do you know how to handle weather and safety emergencies in Detroit?

As the metro Detroit area gets colder, families start thinking about staying warm, keeping kids safe and being prepared for any emergency. Winter freezes can lead to burst pipes, icy roads and sidewalks and power outages. Heavy snow can melt into street flooding, and heaters or fireplaces can start fires if they’re not used carefully. 

Once winter ends, spring brings its own challenges: heavy rainstorms, strong winds and even the occasional tornado warning. Kids may start to wonder, “Who helps when things go wrong? Where do people go? And what can families do to stay safe?” 

Here is a simple guide to help curious Detroit kids understand emergencies, the systems in place to protect them and the places families can go to stay safe during difficult times.

Welcome to Detroit Curious Kids, your guide to what parents need to know about raising kids in the Motor City. From schools and neighborhoods to local events and fun facts, we break down the stories, policies and places shaping family life across metro Detroit. Curious about something? Send your questions, comments or thoughts on what we should cover next to david@metroparent.com.

Shelters 

If heat fails or winter weather reaches dangerous levels, Detroit has safe places for citizens and families. All Detroit Recreation Centers and Detroit Public Library branches serve as warming centers during normal hours. For overnight shelter, Detroit provides more than 1,700 beds throughout the city. The Detroit Public Library provides an updated map of warming centers and overnight shelters.

Other way to access help:

• 24/7 Shelter Hotline: (866) 313-2520
• Weekdays before 6 p.m.: CAM Detroit at (313) 305-0311
• In a Code Blue (below 20°F), families can walk into any warming center or shelter without a referral.

Snow and ice safety

Snow and ice can make daily responsibilities such as getting kids to school, the bus stop or wherever they need to go more dangerous. The city of Detroit requires sidewalks be kept clear, and doing so helps to prevent falls, injuries and accessibility barriers for strollers, wheelchairs and other mobility aids.

Key safety tips:

• Shovel and salt sidewalks quickly and frequently. 
• Move cars off snow emergency routes. During major storms, vehicles left on these streets may be ticketed or towed so plows can get through.
• Expect plow priority. The city clears major roads first, then residential streets as conditions improve.

For seniors and residents with disabilities:

• The City’s Department of Neighborhoods coordinates employees and volunteers for snow removal and safety checks as a part of the Serve Detroit Program. 
• Contact the Detroit Department of Neighborhoods at (313) 224-3400 for help getting started.

Independent providers:

• The Lawn Kingz: (313) 631-1242
• Metro Snow and Lawn Care: (586) 393-7023

Utility safety

Power and gas outages are more common in winter months due to storms and cold fronts. 

Key safety tips:

• Never use ovens or grills to heat your home.
• Dress kids in layers and keep hats, gloves and blankets handy.
• Let faucets drip during extreme cold to prevent frozen pipes.
• Locate your water shutoff valve for emergent situations.

For help paying utility bills or restoring service:

• Call 211 (links to THAW, SER, MEAP, WPP, DTE programs)

Post-disaster assistance

If your home is damaged by flooding or severe weather:

• Take photos of everything and contact your insurance provider immediately.
• In a federal disaster, families may qualify for FEMA, HUD, or SBA assistance.
• If your home becomes unsafe due to inclement weather conditions, receive temporary placement by calling the Housing & Revitalization Department at (313) 224-6380.

Flooding 

In the winter months, heavy rain and melting snow can quickly cause flooding in streets, yards and basements throughout Detroit.

Key safety tips:

• Never walk or drive through flooded roads. Turn around, don’t drown!
• Keep kids away from floodwater, as it can contain sewage, debris and other electrical hazards.
• Clear gutters regularly to prevent leaking from roof ice.

When you need help:

• Detroit Water & Sewerage Department: (313) 267-8000
• Detroit Homeland Security & Emergency Management: (313) 596-2590

Fires 

When locals are trying to stay warm, Detroit sees more house fires during winter due to space heaters, outages and holiday decorations.

Key safety tips:

• In the event of a fire, call 911 immediately.
• Never use generators, grills or camp stoves indoors. Even a short time can create dangerous levels of carbon monoxide.
• Check smoke and carbon monoxide detectors.
• Keep space heaters far from anything flammable and never leave them unattended.
• Turn off holiday decorative lights before sleeping.
• Use flashlights during power outages.

Quick reference hotlines and services

• Emergencies: 911
• Detroit Police Non-Emergency Line: (313) 224-2222 
• 24-Hour Shelter Hotline: (866) 313-2520
• CAM Detroit: (313) 305-0311
• Water/Sewer Issues: (313) 267-8000
• Detroit Homeland Security & Emergency Management: (313) 596-2590
• Utility Assistance (THAW, MEAP, SER, more): 211
• Detroit Alerts 365 Emergency Notifications: Free signup

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Parent Q&A: What it’s really like at International Academy of Macomb

For Macomb County area families, the International Academy of Macomb (IAM) offers something unique: a high-achieving International Baccalaureate program paired with a deeply supportive, close-knit school culture. 

Located in Clinton Township, the IAM serves students who attend the school through affiliation with one of the 19 participating districts in Macomb County.  The IAM is consistently ranked among Michigan’s top-performing high schools.  The IAM is a unique collaboration between the Macomb Intermediate School District and the 19 participating districts to provide a unique and rigorous learning experience to students.

Parent Maria Wilson says her children found not only academic rigor but also a community where peers “lift each other up” and teachers encourage students to explore interests far beyond the classroom. 

We asked Wilson what families can expect from the IAM experience.

What is the school environment like at the International Academy of Macomb?

Wilson says the biggest surprise (and relief) was how deeply her kids felt supported by staff and students.

Her oldest child came from a small private school where he felt like he didn’t fit in and was teased for being smart. At IAM, she says, “he finally felt like he was around his peers, people like him, who value being smart.”

That sense of belonging carried over for her other two children, as well.

“Everybody is there with the same purpose: to work hard, do well and stay focused. They’re all supporting each other in that way,” she says.

Wilson also says IAM has a strong commitment to community-building. Through PTA-led events, movie nights, picnics and student leadership groups like Link Crew, she says, “we really try to make students feel supported, with the older kids supporting the younger kids.”

How does the IB curriculum compare to traditional schools?

Photo credit: Maria Wilson

IAM is known for its rigorous International Baccalaureate program, and Wilson says, “it’s the rigor of the school that helps them do so well when they get to college.”

Her oldest — now an MIT graduate working as a software engineer — told her that IAM prepared him better than many of his peers.

“He said, ‘I see the kids around me struggle, but not me,’” she says. “The school teaches them how to study. They teach them how to stay organized.”

She adds that classes emphasize critical thinking across every subject. 

“They teach you how to determine whether you have a credible source of information from the internet,” she explains. “Every class you have to do thorough analysis, no matter what class.”

How do students get to explore their personal interests?

Photo credit: Maria Wilson

One of IAM’s hallmark experiences is the Personal Project, a multi-year exploration tied to a student’s unique passion.

Wilson’s son used the project to dive into coding, which he had been curious about since age 13.

“They set them up with a teacher who worked with them one-on-one,” she says. “Together, they created a plan that led him to design a mobile app, which he ultimately published in the App Store.”

Her daughter, passionate about art, experienced the same individualized encouragement.

“They supported her so much,” Wilson says. “Teachers helped her enter Scholastic Art competitions, and she even created a permanent mural for the school’s Spanish room that still stands.”

Whether students lean toward STEM, arts or leadership, Wilson says IAM staff “identify talents and interests in them and then help develop and nurture it.”

What outside-of-school opportunities does IAM provide?

Photo credit: Maria Wilson

Wilson says IAM offers enriching opportunities that help make a well-rounded young person. For example, her children participated in honor societies, student council, coding and art clubs, volunteering opportunities, Science Olympiad, competitions and even international travel. 

One exciting experience was when Wilson’s youngest was nominated by the principal to serve as a student advisor for the Michigan Department of Education, where he helped develop guidelines for creating safe spaces for discussions around mental health and race.

creating safe spaces for classroom discussions

Wilson says opportunities like these reflect IAM’s culture — one where students are seen, supported and challenged in meaningful ways.

“Everybody is there with the same purpose and they’re all supporting each other,” she said. “There’s just a lot of love and support in the school.”

Reporting by Tara Jones

Learn more about the International Academy of Macomb. 

This content is sponsored by the Macomb Intermediate School District. Learn more about living and learning in Macomb County at Make Macomb Your Home. 

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A national survey shows why metro Detroit families love their parks

Weekends in metro Detroit are no strangers to packed soccer fields, full walking loops and families filling city green spaces. A new national survey shows that Detroit’s weekend park culture isn’t just lively — it’s part of a larger trend across the country.

SportsBookReview.com surveyed 3,002 respondents to uncover the sportiest public parks in America, highlighting the places where baseball diamonds, paved trails, basketball courts and wide-open lawns are the heartbeat of local recreation. The results showcase parks in major cities — but they also reflect the same habits seen across southeast Michigan.

From Belle Isle to Stony Creek, metro Detroit parks consistently fill with runners, youth leagues, cyclists, fitness groups and families out for play. While the survey highlights national standouts, the findings reaffirm what Detroit residents already know: public parks are where community sport and community connection begins.

National highlights from the survey

Central Park — Manhattan, NY

One of America’s busiest athletic hubs, Central Park’s Great Lawn, fields and paths host everything from soccer and baseball to running loops packed with locals and visitors. The blend of organized sport and casual pickup play mirrors the energy often seen at Belle Isle’s fields and bike paths, especially during warm-weather weekends.

California Oaks Sports Park — Murrieta, CA

With lit ballfields, courts, skate areas and playgrounds, this park balances structured league play with open family recreation. Many metro Detroit parks, like Heritage Park in Farmington Hills or Independence Oaks in Clarkston offer similarly versatile spaces where morning games turn into relaxed afternoons outdoors.

Centennial Park — Nashville, TN

Home to casual volleyball, frisbee, running groups and fitness classes, this park reflects the social-athletic culture found at the Detroit Riverfront and Campus Martius, where yoga sessions, exercise meetups, and informal play are common throughout the year.

 

 

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Why metro Detroit perfectly fits this national trend

While not featured as one of the survey’s top individual parks, metro Detroit mirrors the spirit of America’s sportiest destinations. Southeast Michigan residents make heavy use of local parks for:

• Youth and adult league sports
• Cycling and running on paved and natural trails
• Pickup soccer, frisbee and touch football
• Fitness classes, bootcamps and yoga meetups
• Family play and walking loops

Some of the most active, sport-forward parks in Metro Detroit include:

• Belle Isle Park (Detroit): Soccer, cycling loops, waterfront running routes
• Palmer Park (Detroit): Tennis courts, biking trails, youth sports fields
• Stony Creek Metropark: Biking, disc golf, paddle sports, year-round recreation
• Kensington Metropark: Running loops, cycling, soccer fields, open green space
• Heritage Park (Farmington Hills): Ballfields, trails, seasonal sports

Together, these parks echo exactly what the survey found nationwide: active community spaces where structured and spontaneous recreation coexist.

Expert insight

“Parks have always been where America’s love of sport begins,” says James Bisson, Editor-in-Chief of SportsBookReview.com. “What our survey shows is that these local parks aren’t just recreation spots; they’re where communities connect, generations mix, and the weekend spirit truly comes alive.”

In metro Detroit, that couldn’t ring more true. Parks remain the region’s go-to gathering places for staying active, socializing and spending time outdoors.

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Free holiday light shows to light up the season

The holiday season is in full swing at my house. The Christmas tree is decorated, my pup and I are wearing matching holiday sweaters, and my town has strung up the most beautiful twinkling lights that I just love walking past every day. 

While there are many fantastic Christmas light displays that are worth the price tag, there are plenty of towns in metro Detroit that put on their own free light displays in scenic parks and charming downtown areas. Plus, visiting a light display with free admission means you can put those savings towards hot cocoa, seasonal treats or supporting a nearby small business!

Updated Dec. 15, 2025: This article was reviewed and updated by the Metro Parent editorial team to reflect new event dates, refreshed links and the latest information available for families.

Discover more free holiday activities for metro Detroit families, from free visits with Santa to unforgettable holiday events with free admission. 

Free holiday light displays in metro Detroit

My go-to method for getting into the holiday spirit is to bundle up in your favorite winter gear; grab a travel cup of hot cocoa; and blast a Christmas radio station. Follow these steps and everyone will be feeling the Christmas cheer before you even arrive at these free holiday light displays. 

These free attractions may not have all the razzle and dazzle as the ones that charge admission fees, but they are filled with twinkling lights, family photo ops, free visits with Santa and more free family festivities. 

Walk of Trees

Photo courtesy of City of Plymouth Downtown Development Authority

• Through Tuesday,, Jan. 6, 2026
• Kellogg Park, Plymouth

Twinkling lights and decked out Christmas trees await your family at Kellogg Park. The festive trees were decorated by community members and local businesses, and stay lit around the clock, which means it’s never too early (or late!) to visit. 

The Big, Bright Light Show

Photo credit: The Big, Bright Light Show

• Through Sunday, Jan. 18, 2025
• Downtown Rochester

Take a stroll through Rochester as 1.5 million holiday lights illuminate the downtown area. There are no admission fees to enjoy this festive community celebration, which means you can put that money towards purchasing holiday gifts from local businesses. 

Tunnel of Lights 

Photo courtesy of City of St. Clair Shores

• Through January 2026
• Blossom Health Park, St. Clair Shores

See Blossom Health Park lit up in sparkling lights. There will be entertainment, food trucks and visits from special guests on select Fridays and Saturdays. Enjoy live music, visit with Santa and feast on delicious local eats. Check the Tunnel of Lights calendar to plan your family’s holiday outing in St. Clair Shores.

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Special education funding: Falling through the cracks

Editor’s note: The following column was submitted by a guest contributor and represents the author’s perspective.

As a special education paraprofessional, I have witnessed firsthand the devastating impact of inadequate funding on our special education programs.

The rise in autism diagnoses and the increasing need for behavioral and mental health support have put these districts in a critical position. Unfortunately, they are failing to address this issue effectively. They have cut paraprofessionals, overloaded support staff, including speech therapy, occupational therapy, physical therapy and social workers, with an excessive number of children. This leads to overworked and burnt-out staff, many of whom eventually leave to work in private settings.

The individuals responsible for budgeting rarely visit schools to assess how these funds are being used or identify areas where they need to be allocated. If anyone from the Board of Education does tour a school, it is carefully planned to showcase the best classrooms and limit their time to no more than an hour or two. These individuals need to come in, spend a day in a classroom, and truly understand the challenges faced by teachers and their support staff.

Administration overlooks this problem and focuses solely on mainstream education, allowing them to boast about the latest technology they have implemented, such as new laptops and iPads loaded with expensive apps that children rarely use. In my opinion, this is money wasted.

Teachers of all types, as well as their support staff, advocate for these students, but their efforts often fall on deaf ears. Parents with children with IEPs or 504 plans must be vigilant and ensure that the school is following their child’s specific needs. They should also assess if the school has the necessary resources, including staff and tools, to provide the best possible support. Parents should also attend board meetings and ask these questions. 

They should also explore private funding options for their school, as there are numerous private grants available for students and teachers. Parents should speak with the PTO president to learn where the money from fundraisers is allocated. In my eight years of working in a public school as a paraprofessional or staff member, I have never witnessed funds raised for special education students being spent on anything related to them. Instead, it is allocated to frivolous items like book vending machines in the hallway or end-of-the-year parties. As far as I can see, this money has been raised for the entire school, not just for general education students.

For instance, I have witnessed elementary schools raise up to $50,000 simply by hosting a fun run. Instead of spending $20,000 on a licensing fee for an application on an iPad or computer that most students will never use, that money could be utilized to pay for the salary of an additional staff member or technology that would enable a nonverbal student to communicate effectively. And still, there would be ample funds left over. Of course, fundraising dollars would vary from school to school. The objective is to create an equitable playing field for all students attending these schools. Michigan schools adhere to the No Child Left Behind policy, and they also have schools filled with special education students who are often overlooked and left behind.

Sherry Ioannou is a mom of two boys with a background as a special education paraprofessional. She works as a part-time nanny, combining her love for kids, her classroom experience and her passion for helping little ones feel supported, understood and safe.

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Planning a visit to Magic of Lights at Pine Knob? Here’s what to know before you go.

Magic of Lights returns to Pine Knob Music Theatre for the 2025 holiday season. The drive-through light event opened Friday, Nov. 21, and continues through Saturday, Jan. 3, according to 313 Presents. The event gives Detroit-area families another option for an evening outing as the year winds down.

A steady tradition with new elements for 2025

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The event’s format remains familiar for families who have attended in previous years. Vehicles follow a winding route past displays such as Winter Wonderland, the 12 Days of Christmas and Toyland. Illuminated tunnels also return, including a 200-foot Enchanting Tunnel of Lights.

Event organizers note that several large-scale displays will appear again this year, including Mattel’s animated Waving Christmas Barbie, a Prehistoric Christmas scene with life-sized dinosaurs and the BIGFOOT Monster Truck. These returning installations have been updated with new lighting and animation effects.

Families who want a short break from driving can stop at the Reindeer Rest Stop, a designated walk-through area listed on the official Magic of Lights site.

Operating hours and what parents should consider

Beginning Friday, Dec. 12, Monday through Thursday hours run 6 to 9 p.m., and Friday through Sunday hours extend 5:30 to 10 p.m. Holiday hours on Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and New Year’s Eve operate 6 to 9 p.m. These times are listed on the Magic of Lights website.

Ticketing rules and pricing information

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Event organizers emphasize that all tickets must be purchased online ahead of time. One ticket covers a single vehicle for one pass through the route. Standard vehicles include cars, SUVs and vans with three rows of seating or fewer. Limos and party buses may have up to 20 passengers, while vehicles taller than 12 feet or longer than 30 feet are not permitted.

Pricing details come from 313 Presents. Santa Saver passes start at $25 when available. Standard weekday passes begin at $28 and any day passes start at $32.50 for advance purchase. Limo and party bus passes start at $70.

Additional pricing, including the rate structure for Dec. 5-Jan. 3, is outlined on the Magic of Lights website, which also defines weekday tickets as Monday through Thursday and any day tickets as valid any day.

Extra themed nights during the season

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Several themed nights appear on the 313 Presents event listing. Tail-Wagging Tuesdays offer dog treats provided by Michigan Humane Society. National Candy Cane Day on Friday, Dec. 26 includes giveaways for the first one hundred visitors, while supplies last.

These themed nights do not change the overall route but may help families decide when to visit.

What parents tend to weigh when planning a visit

Because the experience takes place inside the car, many families find it easier to manage with children of different ages or sensitivities. The route typically takes under an hour depending on traffic, which helps keep the outing predictable on school nights.

Some families say the tradition grows year after year. Two parent comments shared on Reddit reflect that sentiment. One parent shared, “My kids love it.. we have gone once a year since opening.” Another visitor noted that the event appeals even without kids, writing, “I don’t have kids and I’ve gone the past few years with the wife and enjoyed it, it gets better every year.”

While the event’s no-refund policy and online-only ticketing require some advance planning, the indoor-from-your-car format often appeals to parents who prefer shorter or weather-proof activities during the holidays.

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Fun ways kids can celebrate New Year’s in Detroit

Little ones don’t have to wait until midnight to celebrate New Year’s Eve. Across metro Detroit, museums, libraries and community spaces offer fun, family-friendly countdowns and hands-on activities perfect for all ages.

Many events feature crafts, STEM projects, dancing, balloon drops and sparkling juice to bring in the new year with excitement — without keeping the kids up late. Parents can also enjoy a relaxed, daytime or early-evening celebration that fits into busy holiday schedules.

We checked museum calendars, library programs and local event listings to round up the best places for families to welcome 2026 together. Here are the top picks for kid-approved New Year’s celebrations around metro Detroit.

Noon Year’s Eve Celebration

Little ones can kick off the new year with a cheerful daytime celebration at Fascination Factory in Birmingham. This family-friendly event includes a festive balloon drop, themed crafts, sparkling grape juice and plenty of open play in the indoor activity space. Designed for ages 0–7, the celebration offers a safe, energetic environment where young children and caregivers can enjoy the excitement of New Year’s Eve together.

• Address: Fascination Factory, 2295 E. Lincoln St., Suite 150, Birmingham
• Date: 10:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Dec. 31
• Phone: (248) 480-9800

Kids New Year’s Eve Dining Experience

Families can celebrate early at JoJo’s fun-filled New Year’s Eve dining party, featuring festive food, over-the-top shakes and a special noon countdown. The experience includes a choice of entrée, a signature Biggie Shake or Biggie Hot Chocolate, party favors and a sparkling toast for both kids and adults. Reservations required.

• Address: JoJo’s Shake Bar, 88 W. Columbia St., Detroit
• Date: 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Dec. 31
• Phone: (313) 462-4315

NOON Year’s Eve Balloon Drop

Families can welcome the new year early at LEGOLAND Discovery Center’s colorful NOON Year’s Eve celebration. This kid-friendly event features a vibrant balloon drop at noon sharp, giving children all the excitement of a countdown without staying up late. Guests are encouraged to arrive by 11:45 a.m. to catch the drop and enjoy the attraction’s rides, building areas and hands-on LEGO fun. It’s a lively way for families with young builders to celebrate together. 

• Address: LEGOLAND Discovery Center Michigan, 4240 Baldwin Road, Auburn Hills
• Date: 12 p.m. Dec. 31
• Phone: (248) 409-6001

Kids NYE Bash

Families can celebrate early at Ike’s fun-filled New Year’s Eve bash, packed with activities designed just for kids. Little ones can enjoy a balloon drop, light-up balloon twisting, face painting, a Build-a-Buddy station, games and a festive mocktail bar. A pizza and breadstick buffet is included, making it an easy lunch-and-celebration combo for families. Tickets required. 

• Address: Ike’s Restaurant, 38550 Van Dyke Ave., Sterling Heights
• Date: 12:30-2:30 p.m.  Dec. 31
• Phone: (586) 979-4460

Family New Year’s Eve Party

Families can swim, play sports, enjoy inflatables and participate in games before celebrating with an early countdown. It’s an active event, great for kids who love to move.

• Address: Troy Community Center, 3179 Livernois Road, Troy
• Date: 3 p.m.-6 p.m. Dec. 31
• Phone: (248) 524-3484
  

New Year’s Eve Enchanted Skate

Families can ring in the new year on the ice at this festive outdoor celebration in downtown Farmington. The Enchanted Skate features skating, games, a scavenger hunt and a family-friendly ball drop at 9 p.m. Guests who stay later can welcome 2026 with a second ball drop over the rink at midnight. With music, lights and a magical winter atmosphere, it’s a fun way for kids, teens and adults to celebrate together.

• Address: Riley Park Ice Rink, 33113 Grand River Ave., Farmington
• Date: 7:30-9:30 p.m., Dec. 31
• Phone: (248) 474-5500

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